"I like you... but only as a friend" - these dreaded words are the stuff that nightmares are made of. Oftentimes, men find themselves in such a situation where the girls they fancy only see them as good friends. Not all is lost though it is a long and difficult process to turn friendship into romance.
Here are a few steps that you may take to help you along the way.
1. Don't pour your heart out to her.
Yes, you love her but never, ever show it especially if she has already told you that she is only interested in friendship. If she knows that you really fancy her that much, things will get weird between you. Worse, she will probably start avoiding you which is definitely what you don't want. Instead, act cool.
2. Stop letting her walk all over you.
She knows you like her so she uses you like a tool. Really, don't make things so easy for her. You want her to see you as a potential lover, not as an errand boy. She will only take you for granted if you allow her to do so.
What can you do? Don't cater to her every whim and fancy and don't be too available. Let her know that your life doesn't revolve around her. Don't worry; it's not a mean thing to do. Rather, she'll probably value you more that way.
3. Date around.
Let her see you with other girls. That is a sure fire way to touch her heart. Women are fickle minded creatures - they will only start appreciating something when it's gone. So flirt around, and let her see it. Once she sees that you are hot property with other females, she will start to wonder what she is missing.
4. Touch her.
Please, not in a sexual way but rather you want her to start feeling comfortable with you. Lightly touch her hand when in conversation. Give her a hug now and then. Do not put too much thought into it and try to make it seem as natural as possible.
5. Make her meet your standards.
You've backed her up all these years. Don't you think it is time she did the same for you? Be confident for a change and don't just be a yes-man to her. You do have your own opinions and a mind of your own so don't be afraid to let her know it. She will respect you more for it!
6. Let's talk about sex.
A little sexual innuendo in conversations is good. Don't go over-the-top or make her feel uncomfortable, but flirt a little with her. Let her know about a recent sexual experience that you might have had. No need to go into too much detail of course, but at least she will be aware that there are others who find you desirable.
7. More about Sex.
Talking about sex also brings the relationship to a whole new level. She might say that she just wants to be friends, but giving her some insight on your sexual prowess will also open her eyes on to your potential as a lover.
8. Create sexual tension.
Like mentioned just now, you cannot make yourself too available to her. Being around her all the time makes you predictable, and that quickly becomes boring. Be nice to her, but also treat other women the same way. Go on a date with her, and then don't call her the next few days.
This is also the time where you can intensify your relationship with her. Mix up the sexual undertones in your normal conversation. You are letting her know that you are still interested but you are also keeping your options open as well.
9. Go for it.
So this is it; the moment! Steps 1 to 8 are the precursor leading to this stage in your relationship. It is time to gaze into her eyes and lean in for a kiss. Think too long, and you might lose your nerve.
At this point, you really shouldn't be too worried. After all, you've worked so hard up to now - isn't it time to see if you will get the result you've been hoping for?
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