Monday, 18 April 2011

Sep 5-effective communication in marriage

wedding ringsEffective communication will enhance your marriage

Give of yourself, is one of the most effective ways to bond with another person. The company is strengthened and love is increased. An easy way to give service to each other is to take time to listen. Take time to let others share the facts of the day. Take time to leave your spouse to share with you their hopes, dreams and fears.

Listen To Them. Express your love for them. Take time to reciprocate and share with your spouse, how your day went, and what comes to mind. Be willing to share your thoughts and feelings.

What is the profit for speaking and participating in a loving Exchange dialog? Nothing makes a person's sense of self more than to have someone listen to them and recognize that they are important. It unites people. Increases the love. Increases confidence. It binds people together and helps them to become one in heart, mind and purpose.

The quickest way to make someone feel unimportant is to not take time to listen to them. Nothing says you don t matter faster not sincerely listening and conversing with them.

Today's world, taking time to talk with each other has become more challenging. Talk to people less today than it did before. There is no work, taking the children here and there, TV, Internet, and the list goes on. A hundred years ago there was nothing like this. People were much closer then. People knew their neighbors so better. People were more worried about each other because they have interacted more.

Today, we have all kinds of ways to communicate, but not always allow us to talkreally. What's popular with many young people today is to text message. It is a great form of communication to ask questions, find out what people are doing, etc. The downside is they do not allow people to be face to face. It denies the ability to hear the tone of the other person's voice. You can't see their body language. Most of the communication is communicated through tone of voice and body language. So you deny yourself the most real communication when you only text and email. Also limit your ability to be able to interact effectively with others.

Effective communication is necessary to talk in person. Take time today to you and your spouse to talk, away from distractions and away from children. Can be only 10 or 15 minutes to start, but the results are worth it.

As we continue to communicate with the two of you will grow closer together and will be more joy in your wedding!

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